I have been in discussion with many women who have a hard time relating with Aphrodite, or fear Her.
In Ancient times, prepubescent girls would be young priestesses of the Golden Goddess because they hadn't yet entered Her realm. At the Rites of Aphrodisia 2005, we had two young Priestesses included in performing the ritual, which seemed to make Aphrodite as pleased as punch.
So I am creating a ritual for young girls, ages 1-puberty, to develop Kharis with Aphrodite from an early age since Aphrodite truly loves children. The girls will be adorned with flowers, and face paint. We'll throw the barley, call to Aphrodite, pour the honey, give offerings of fruits, and eat delicious cakes dripping with golden honey. Sing Her songs, and rejoice in laughter all in her presence.